THE FAMILY UNDER SIEGE



                                              THE FAMILY UNDER SIEGE
                                           CHIBU NDUBUISI      12/06/2017
‘Tomorrows world is born in what we teach our children today’ Jonathan Sacks

Peace be to you.

A man seeking direction of a hospital that conducts Deoxyribonucleic acid  (DNA) test through a Facebook friend made hell to let loose over the social media platform with so much troll from a female folk who was not comfortable with such request. Read the post here (http://pearl-magazine.blogspot.com.ng/2017/06/full-details-of-dna-saga-that-sets.html)
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I would like ask, why do men and women cheat on their spouses?

a.     People cheat because they are no longer happy or bored with their union.

b.     People cheat because they cannot consume a particular food all the time, hence they need varieties(more than one man or woman)
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c.      People cheat because of the circle of friends they keep encourages such acts.

d.     Men cheat because after childbirth their spouses stop appealing to their husbands. Their wives have lost alignment or their tyres are now worn out. 
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e.     Some men have no sex life with their wives.

f.       Some men cheat to explore other sexual fantasies that they can’t get from their wives or can’t carry out with their wives. 
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g.     Some women cheat because of the long absence of their spouse from them and now have cobwebs on their vagina which requires cobwebbing attention. 
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h.     Some women cheat because they want extra income.
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i.        Some women cheat because they cannot connect emotionally with their husbands.

j.       Women cheat if they cannot get enough sex from their husbands.

k.     Women cheat on their men if the husband has small manhood or suffers from low sperm count. 
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l.        Women cheat for power reasons. They want to be close to those that have power.

Ashley Madison or The Ashley Madison Agency, is a Canadian online dating service and social networking service marketed to people who are married or in committed relationships, to cheat on their spouse. Women register for free but men pay a premium to register. It was founded in 2002 by Darren Morgenstern, with the slogan: "Life is short. Have an affair." the company later changed its signature tagline from "Life is Short. Have an Affair." to "Find your moment", its membership includes 39 million people in 53 countries.

 This is the world we now live. When the family is under siege, the world will never know peace. Those who will safe guard our tomorrow how are they trained?

 Cheating has a price. It causes heartaches, headaches, broken homes, ruined marriages, damaged families and tendencies of contacting sexually diseases that have shattered many homes.

 We can’t heal a fractured world by subscribing to Ashley Madison or through the philosophy of ‘tit for tat’ in marriages.

 Peace be with you.




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